Have you ever questioned a person's intent toward you? Friendship? Romantically? Why? Insecurites? I met this cute soldier recently at the bar. It was karaoke night. He was trying to strike a convo across the bar (doesn't happen often)I usually become very shy and literally was hesitant to walk over when he was talking to me. I ended up talking to him the rest of the night and had an intelligent conversation. What I can see wise, is that he smokes which is a deal breaker (literally they all do, just expect it), I kept questioning what was the point of why I crossed paths with him. I ask that about people. He has a vibe about him that makes me feel like hes just a handsome guy that wanted to just make a friend (which is completely fine since hes new in town) and likes to hang out w/ his bro friends and that will find someone to chat with the next day. He was very polite that night, dont get me wrong but signs and senses tell me this. I've left an open door of maybe being wrong though, but I dont really see anything to think too deeply about. Just a nice chat with a new guy in town, thats all. But part of it too wants it to be that outcome as a form of protection to detach from him or any guy as early as possible, since I'm very sensitive. If he's a douchebag, I want to know from the beginning. I've never dated before but have had direct and indirect taste of personalities in recent years. But I know that this will help break my anxiety and insecurities around guys. What do you guys think? Ever experience something similar?
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