@5ringssystems asked for a bit of help being seen on camera (because he glows like an ivory ghost on film) so I pulled out the old theatre bag of tricks. Some bronzer, color correction (already done in the "pre" photos) and the @purcosmetics contour palette (that smells of chocolate!) and we made my handsome hubby look a bit like a 300 extra. I couldn't help adding a splash (or a bucketful) of highlighter to make him glow to the gods. Super fun and a nice break from writing. Awesome to have a partner that doesn't have any preconceived notions about the fun of makeup and who it belongs on.
Also, as he said, don't get down on yourself for not living up to some Instaguru given how little it takes to alter an image. This was about 15 min. Add in a filter or two and some airbrushing... enough to make anyone fit a mold. Just have fun and know you are beautiful and sexy no matter what.