Youre very lucky if you find Unconditional Love in your life.Is a rarity.🙏 Caus it isnt about someone else putting up with your negative behaviour,selfish actions & 'My way or the highway' Silverback Male attitude.
Its about trying to limit those destructive behaviours,work on your troubled areas, grow, talk about stuff, give and recieve support,a hug when needed.For them. For you. For you both as a couple. You chose someone gentle or lovely for a reason. Honour that!.Help her blossom. Dont abuse it!.
Too many people think 'i don't give a shit' if my behaviours are scary or detrimental to you'.I cant change- I wont change.. put up with it or bye! Wellll..you'll never keep anyone decent, caring or loving in your life for too long. Is a Bad attitude. That simply means you have self imposed importance and cant be bothered to grow.
Out of control dominating and/or drunkenness/ drug abuse is ugly, scary and not desirable AT ALL. & Memory loss afterward is a cowards copout.
Karma will bring you your nasty equal eventually, in one way or another.
Real Love is respecting & Lifting your special other up, as they give you support and encourage you.-Dont push it, test and trample their love until theyre tired & can tolerate no more. It's not nice or mature. Good Men arent selfish, yelling or swearing to get your own way. Negotiating & Communication is a must. Your partner deserves you at your best possible.Not see how far your worst can push her. Good people and hearts are broken every day this irrational way.
Ive endured or seen too much of this shit in my life, past marriage & further
relationships & i won't cover for anyone or be quiet about it anymore!
If your father did it, doesn't mean you can continue it to another generation. Teach our boys whats right to do, and our girls what NOT to accept.! We've all got to do the self growth & inner work and stop hurting innocent others.
#FightOrFlight #NoToDomesticViolence #ComeOnlyFromLove