This isn't a post about what a man has said wrong to me over the internet. That is a bag of dicks I'm not ready to touch.
What I am currently dealing with is the split between my belief that a sex worker can be who ever they want and work however they want, say yes and no to things they agree with and don't, can work in whatever way is right for them, be themselves; and the pre existing construct where Sex workers are service providers there to be polite, say yes, do what someone else wants you to, react how they want, be their fantasy, lie to make yourself seem like the single, horny, Sex nymph all the time that you actually aren't, hold your tongue, don't correct them, go along with jobs that don't excite you and supporting people who perpetuate negative sexual and social behaviors by not pointing out when there is a problem so the "client" isn't offended. I have strong beliefs on how the sex industry and attitudes towards Sex need to be but sticking to that makes it much harder to make money. Working in an industry I love and am passionate about and want a part of progressing but is also so problematic and perpetuates the things I want to change is a daily battle. I want to provide sexual services for money...but on MY terms. And that shouldn't offend anyone. Obviously after I sent that reply I didn't hear from that client again. Sex workers are just real people with jobs. We can do the service. But we don't need to pretend we are the perfect sex pot fantasy outside of that. We can pleasure your genitals but it doesn't mean we have to give up our social standards and encourage negative behavior. In an industry that gets inside you more than most, it is important to hold your ground on your boundaries. Even if it means making half or even one tenth of what I used to make. But maybe if I stick to it, one day word will get around about my style of authenticity, honest openness, intimacy and genuine sexual interests and I'll attract the clients who want and respect that. .
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