This is something that I have thought about lately, having come to a pretty good and peaceful understanding of a couple of the people that I have encountered in my life.
First of all, if you are still constantly angry about past events, then you haven't forgiven yourself.
It's not like we should automatically KNOW that people have personality disorders,narcissists, or have other deep seated issues. I called it the school of life.
Secondly, sometimes these things ARE lessons for the better.
I mean, how else would we be open to real experiences? You can choose to build walls or you can see real love with all its true imperfections. Get it out of your head how you think things should be and accept what you have right now in, front of you.
Lastly, be THANKFUL for people that have thrown stones at you. Know not to take it personally, but rather, give them the walking papers or let them run. Let them live in their own twisted f#ckery
alone! And then you carry on with your new bad-ass self and kick ass! We must THANK them for the motivation! ✌